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Frequently Asked Questions

Yes, please! We would love to know if you can join us on our special day. By letting us know if you can make it, you'll help us plan the perfect celebration for everyone to enjoy. And don't worry, if you forget to RSVP by the date provided on your invitation, we'll still reach out to you to confirm your attendance. We can't wait to celebrate with you!

Do I need to RSVP? 

Can I bring my children?

We kindly request that our wedding events be adults-only. We hope that our friends and family with young children can take this opportunity to enjoy a night off and make it a special night out for themselves. We appreciate your understanding and support in helping us create an elegant and sophisticated atmosphere for all our guests to enjoy. Thank you for being a part of our celebration!

We're excited to celebrate our special day with you, and we want everyone to feel their best! Our dress code for the event is Black Tie Optional, with a fun and festive Gucci Garden theme. While formal attire is encouraged, we want you to feel free to add your own personal touches to your outfit in keeping with the theme. For women, this could mean incorporating bright floral patterns or accessories, while men might consider adding a colorful tie or pocket square to their formal wear. We can't wait to see everyone looking their best and enjoying the celebration with us! Please no JEANS! 

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What is the dress code for the wedding?

Will the wedding take place indoor or outside?

The ceremony and dinner will be outside, and the dancing will be inside in the ballroom. Get ready to enjoy some fresh air, delicious food, and then dance the night away!

We appreciate your excitement to share our special day with a special someone, but due to limited space and resources, we kindly request that guests refrain from bringing a date unless a plus one was specifically invited. We hope that you understand and still join us in celebrating this joyous occasion with our closest family and friends. Thank you for your understanding and for being a part of our wedding celebration!

Can I bring a date? 

What time should I arrive to the wedding?

Please arrive 15-30 minutes prior to the 4pm ceremony start time. We can't wait to celebrate with you!


Is there an open bar? 

Will there be transportation? 

Yes, we're happy to provide shuttle transportation for our guests to and from the wedding venue. The shuttle will have pick-up and drop-off locations in Downtown Napa, making it easy and convenient for everyone to arrive and depart safely. We want to ensure that everyone can enjoy the celebration without any worries, and we look forward to seeing you there!

Yes, we're happy to offer free on-site parking to all guests on a first come first serve basis. However, we also understand that parking can be limited, so we'll also have a shuttle service available for guests to pick up and drop off in downtown Napa. This will help ensure that everyone arrives at the venue safely and on time. Thank you for your cooperation, and we can't wait to celebrate with you soon!

If I drive is there parking on-site?

Do you have a room block?

No. We tried to acquire room blocks at several resorts in Napa but the rates provided were not competitive. We do have hotel suggestions under the "Travel & Stay" section. We will also have shuttle service pick ups in Downtown Napa. 

If you are invited to The Wedding, then yes, you are invited to the Welcome Party. Anyone invited to The Wedding, including plus ones, can celebrate with us the night before.

Am I invited to the Welcome Party?

What should I wear to the welcome party?

We're so excited to celebrate with you! For our pre-wedding Mexican fiesta, we're asking guests to come dressed in bright colors and ready to celebrate with us. The dress code is festive and fun, so feel free to be creative with your attire. Our restaurant venue is upscale/casual, so we suggest dressing up a bit, while keeping the fun and festive theme in mind. Women may consider wearing a colorful sundress, skirt, or dressy pants paired with sandals or wedges, while men could wear a colorful button-down shirt or polo paired with slacks or khakis. We can't wait to see you in your bright and colorful attire as we kick off the celebrations for our big day!

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Your presence will surely be missed. Please RSVP "Will NOT Attend." If you have already RSVP'd attending but find that you will not make it, please notify Kaitlin (650)201-2427 as soon as possible.

What if I can't make it?

Why wasn't I invited? 

We're sorry if you didn't receive an invitation to our wedding. We know it can be disappointing, but please understand that our guest list was limited due to a variety of factors, such as venue capacity, budget, and family obligations. We wish we could invite everyone we know and love, but unfortunately, it just wasn't possible. Please know that it's not a reflection of how we feel about you, and we hope you can still celebrate our love from afar. Thank you for understanding, and we look forward to seeing you soon.

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